"As God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience." Colossians 3:12
May I be so blunt and ask you.. Are you in Christ, growing and gathering people unto Him... or bein' rude, un-tactful, insensitive, too rough instead of gentle or abrasive in an inappropriate way that's just not called for?
"Whoever is not with me is against me, and whoever does not gather with me scatters." ~ Jesus in Matthew 12:30