1. Relatiionship with the Lord – The God of the Bible; worshipping and serving Him is to come first before all else. Jesus Christ commanded in Matthew 22:37-38, "Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment." So, our first priority is worshipping the Bible God. Do you give your time, talent and treasure to God? Why not? Has a lame minister let you down? God will still show you a way to serve Him.
2. Spouse - Your spouse comes second only to God, as you are indeed one flesh. God has only two rules for marriage: Love and submit. Not too much. And you are both to be in agreement about biblical discipline (under God's authority) with the children if He ever blesses you with some. If you are married, no one is to become a closer friend to you than God or your spouse.. yup, not even emotionally. Right now who do you spend the most time with? Who are you talking with the most ..and about what?
3. Children - Your children come third. They are a major part of your family of course, and are the fruit of your marriage. Nothing else comes before your children, except your spouse and God. Our kids are to be protected by both parents and loved without partiality (one spouse should stand up to protect the children if the other partner is lost and refuses to. Proper discipline is good, but one partner is not to allow the other to partner to injure the children in any way--sad that even needs to be said). The children need careful, accurate, practical Bible training by the Spirit and this training will take time and persistence. It can also happen naturally as you go through your day with them.
So if man came from God as he did, and woman came from man, and then the kids came from the woman, so kids are to be subject to their mother, father, and Father God, but all (the woman, man and kids) should put God first because he is the ultimate Authority.
4. Your Career / Job / Ministry calling / School ..needs to come number four. Work has its place, and of course there will be appropriate times where work will be more of a priority than the other things here (in number four here.. like school and public ministry commitments) because you'll need to honor the Lord by paying your bills on time, but work should never come before your relationship with the Lord. You are not to have employment that is committed to hurting other people ..knowingly or unknowingly (like say in the "sick adult entertainment arena"). Duh.