What do you really like? What are you like?
"But Sihon the king of Heshbon would not let us pass by him, for the LORD your God hardened his spirit and made his heart obstinate, that he might give him into your hand, as he is this day." Deuteronomy 2:30
Choices matter. God only firms up the hard-heart and spirit of the person who chooses to have a hard heart. He really loves them, but is not at all loved in return. Why rebel and disobey Him when you can believe, be bettered..a lot, and simply live with a soft heart in His wonderful Son?
Unfair..really? Are you sure..really? He created the person and you’ve all been bought back from cruel slavery..at a price. We all can turn and trust.. be forgiven and saved if we choose to be. Will all be? Sadly..nope. God hardens what's already pretty hard. The Bible says, "And he hardened Pharaoh's heart.." Exodus 7:13