F4S: Are ya hitched, believer? What do you do and say and reject to keep it fresh?

Monday, May 18, 2015

Are ya hitched, believer? What do you do and say and reject to keep it fresh?

Win her heart, win it over and over again (her's, your spouse!), don't stop rewinin' her heart. since when did stoppin' that become better than not stoppin' that? 

Pray for her needs, do your best in workin' smart to provide for her if she likes expensive things - she might. Creatively date n love her, protect n act like the example/responsible man you are with her, keep your promises - do what you say you'll do when you said you will, read what's so as she likes to her, listen to her, make time to enjoy meetin' her other needs well - only God can meet em all but never use that as a cop out to neglect. Duh! Spoil her. Do it agian, have no closer friend (except God) than her, write to her, be faithful to her, trust her, pray with her.




Since when did forgiveness from your spouse granted become something better to have ...than your flat-out loyalty upwards to the Lord and to her? I'm not sayin' the former is bad cuz who isn't better off forging in their heart?.. but choose the later early. Keep choosing it. Since when did choosing to rebuild a marriage that you crushed become a better witness to this world, than one that wasn't?


"Seize life! Eat bread with gusto.. Oh yes--God takes pleasure in your pleasure! Dress festively every morning. Don't skimp on colors and scarves. Relish life with the spouse you love each and every day of your precarious life. Each day is God's gift. It's all you get in exchange for the hard work of staying alive. Make the most of each one!" Eccl.9:7-9msg


"Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered." ~ 1 Peter 3:7

Real "..Love covers all offenses.", "Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them." ~ 3/19col. 10/12b.prov.

"It's the second most important decision of a person's life, but today half of all American singles are opting to stay single. Some were hurt indirectly. Many don't like what they've seen, or experienced around such, nor do they like those marriage statistics. A successful lasting marriage is at first a very valuable gift! It's always a gift, but a lasting marriage is an achievement of sorts from applying the principles of real love that work. There's help available." ~ kVs see2/23gen.bible

"It's the second most important decision of a person's life, but today half of all American singles are opting to stay single. Some were hurt indirectly. Many don't like what they've seen, or experienced around such, nor do they like those marriage statistics. A successful lasting marriage is at first a very valuable gift! It's always a gift, but a lasting marriage is an achievement of sorts from applying the principles of real love that work. There's help available." ~ 2/23gen.

Have ya been mixin' due to mixed motives or to a divided heart? Stop it. Never be that way.. "being a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways." 1/8jam. In Christ ask God for His love, stay-bility, heart, perspective, and faithfulness. 

Remember, "A friend loves at all times.." | 17'17a.prov.bible | Ya got hitched as best friends, so go the distance choosing to stay best of friends. #SpendsLotsOfTimeTogether Read more...